Lists of questions

So I was thinking what is something good to ask when you really want to get to know someone? They say the deadly questions to ask someone that you are in a relationship with (or want be with) is about sex, religion, & politics. So I decided to make a list of things I would like to know. Of course additions to the lists are always great. So let's begin.

1) The absolute basic question. What is your favorite color? I know that is cheesy but I have always felt that favorite colors tell a little bit about a person. Black shows a deep hurt, pain, or saddness. Red is a passionate color, I find people who love this color are have very strong options about their life. Green is a bit laid back. There of course no right answer to this but it can show some insight.

2) What do you like to do for fun during your free time? This may not seem that deep but think of it this way if you like to sit down and stay home on friday night and the person you are seeing like to be at the bar all weekend and get drunk, then you are not going to be very happy together. On the other hand if you are a football fan and your honey hates it and rather play volleyball then while you both are sports fans then you still are going to find boredom.

3) Now the best thing to remember is even though all us adults do think about bedroom behaviors these kinda questions may not what you want to know first, unless you are not too serious about the person. So maybe that is the next best question... Are you looking for a serious relationship or are you just looking for fun right now? This is the one question that you need to be completely honest with yourself and the other person. Now men usually get scared when a woman asks this question because they get worried about losing their "freedom." Of course this irrational, I mean most guys' freedom is playing an online RPG

4) What kind of music do you listen to? Another question you may not think important but if I like Eminem and you like Garth Brooks then there may be a problem when trying to set a mood.

5) What kind of food do you like? or more important, are you allergic to any foods? If you can't eat carrots then there could be trouble if I get full veggies in the chicken fried rice. Hard to kiss when your date has a swollen face and needs a shot of benedryl.

6) What is your favorite season? That may also beg the queston, where did you grow up? Mainly because winter in New York and winter in Texas are NOT ANYTHING ALIKE!

7) What are three things you like about yourself? If you sweetie doesn't like themself how can they start to like others?

8) What are you looking for in another person? This kinda ties in with the "are you looking for a serious relationship" question. Even though you may not looking for a one night stand the type of person is very important otherwise you may have a small series of one-night stands with someone you are completely incompatable.

9) I know it is kinda deep but do you ever want to marry (or if they were married, do you want to marry again)?

10) Now that you cover some of the basics now you can answer more personal questions, such as comparing interest, bedroom behavors. It is always good to get a foundation before bothering to go any farther.

Now here is a start. The rest is truly up to you.