Monday, April 17, 2006
Well kiddies
Someone locked me out of my yahoo, so if you wish to contact me leave me a message and at my alt email. If you don't know it, leave your email behind and I will get back to you.
Sunday, March 26, 2006
Lists of questions
So I was thinking what is something good to ask when you really want to get to know someone? They say the deadly questions to ask someone that you are in a relationship with (or want be with) is about sex, religion, & politics. So I decided to make a list of things I would like to know. Of course additions to the lists are always great. So let's begin.
1) The absolute basic question. What is your favorite color? I know that is cheesy but I have always felt that favorite colors tell a little bit about a person. Black shows a deep hurt, pain, or saddness. Red is a passionate color, I find people who love this color are have very strong options about their life. Green is a bit laid back. There of course no right answer to this but it can show some insight.
2) What do you like to do for fun during your free time? This may not seem that deep but think of it this way if you like to sit down and stay home on friday night and the person you are seeing like to be at the bar all weekend and get drunk, then you are not going to be very happy together. On the other hand if you are a football fan and your honey hates it and rather play volleyball then while you both are sports fans then you still are going to find boredom.
3) Now the best thing to remember is even though all us adults do think about bedroom behaviors these kinda questions may not what you want to know first, unless you are not too serious about the person. So maybe that is the next best question... Are you looking for a serious relationship or are you just looking for fun right now? This is the one question that you need to be completely honest with yourself and the other person. Now men usually get scared when a woman asks this question because they get worried about losing their "freedom." Of course this irrational, I mean most guys' freedom is playing an online RPG
4) What kind of music do you listen to? Another question you may not think important but if I like Eminem and you like Garth Brooks then there may be a problem when trying to set a mood.
5) What kind of food do you like? or more important, are you allergic to any foods? If you can't eat carrots then there could be trouble if I get full veggies in the chicken fried rice. Hard to kiss when your date has a swollen face and needs a shot of benedryl.
6) What is your favorite season? That may also beg the queston, where did you grow up? Mainly because winter in New York and winter in Texas are NOT ANYTHING ALIKE!
7) What are three things you like about yourself? If you sweetie doesn't like themself how can they start to like others?
8) What are you looking for in another person? This kinda ties in with the "are you looking for a serious relationship" question. Even though you may not looking for a one night stand the type of person is very important otherwise you may have a small series of one-night stands with someone you are completely incompatable.
9) I know it is kinda deep but do you ever want to marry (or if they were married, do you want to marry again)?
10) Now that you cover some of the basics now you can answer more personal questions, such as comparing interest, bedroom behavors. It is always good to get a foundation before bothering to go any farther.
Now here is a start. The rest is truly up to you.
1) The absolute basic question. What is your favorite color? I know that is cheesy but I have always felt that favorite colors tell a little bit about a person. Black shows a deep hurt, pain, or saddness. Red is a passionate color, I find people who love this color are have very strong options about their life. Green is a bit laid back. There of course no right answer to this but it can show some insight.
2) What do you like to do for fun during your free time? This may not seem that deep but think of it this way if you like to sit down and stay home on friday night and the person you are seeing like to be at the bar all weekend and get drunk, then you are not going to be very happy together. On the other hand if you are a football fan and your honey hates it and rather play volleyball then while you both are sports fans then you still are going to find boredom.
3) Now the best thing to remember is even though all us adults do think about bedroom behaviors these kinda questions may not what you want to know first, unless you are not too serious about the person. So maybe that is the next best question... Are you looking for a serious relationship or are you just looking for fun right now? This is the one question that you need to be completely honest with yourself and the other person. Now men usually get scared when a woman asks this question because they get worried about losing their "freedom." Of course this irrational, I mean most guys' freedom is playing an online RPG
4) What kind of music do you listen to? Another question you may not think important but if I like Eminem and you like Garth Brooks then there may be a problem when trying to set a mood.
5) What kind of food do you like? or more important, are you allergic to any foods? If you can't eat carrots then there could be trouble if I get full veggies in the chicken fried rice. Hard to kiss when your date has a swollen face and needs a shot of benedryl.
6) What is your favorite season? That may also beg the queston, where did you grow up? Mainly because winter in New York and winter in Texas are NOT ANYTHING ALIKE!
7) What are three things you like about yourself? If you sweetie doesn't like themself how can they start to like others?
8) What are you looking for in another person? This kinda ties in with the "are you looking for a serious relationship" question. Even though you may not looking for a one night stand the type of person is very important otherwise you may have a small series of one-night stands with someone you are completely incompatable.
9) I know it is kinda deep but do you ever want to marry (or if they were married, do you want to marry again)?
10) Now that you cover some of the basics now you can answer more personal questions, such as comparing interest, bedroom behavors. It is always good to get a foundation before bothering to go any farther.
Now here is a start. The rest is truly up to you.
Monday, March 13, 2006
Fuck my birthday
So the day was awesome until I came home. First I find an email from my ex-husband, oh yea always a joy. Then the bitching started. So I left. Called my friend Katy up and hung with her for a bit, got her hooked up with one of my friends. Nice to know someone is gonna get laid. I realized that this is getting pathetic. It doesn't matter how much I try to improve myself, or how hard to try to be nice or good, I get shite upon by the people I live with. It's like trying to please a colic baby. No shutting them up. You give advise, you are trying to start a fight. You do something nice, they expected you to do it anyway. It's my birthday and I am alone. I have half a mind to go sit outside my one friend's door, never knocking so I won't disturb him, but I need out. My cake sits in the icebox. My beer is there too. God this day sux, I can't wait for it to end.
Saturday, February 18, 2006
Life is Always Beautiful When You're on Morphine
Hello kiddies,
So you may ask yourself if Val hasn't ran away and joined a convent. I haven't talked to anyone in a week. Well don't worry, I am not a nun. Worse I have been in the hospital. Yep, the "simple day surgery" that was scheduled for next month, turned into emerency surgery with complications that left me in the hospital for five long days. I shouldn't say that, the surgery didn't keep me long about 3 days. Of course they had to battle a 103.3 fever to get me into surgery first, then made sure it stayed down before releasing me Tuesday afternoon. Well Tuesday night I had to go back when the fever kicked up to 101.7, then 101.3, then 102.9, then hospitalization. No real surprise when the doctor said oh you're sick. Thanks doc, what you just spent another two grand to tell me that? So re-admitted into haspital and I just got out on Friday afternoon. At least I don't have to eat anymore super-greasy foods there anymore. I never been to a hospital where I think the main ingredsiate of all the foods cooked was lard. The irony of it is all is that I couldn't get butter there. They gave me that heart smart spread. OMG, grease dripped off the food, but butter was the no-no? Go figure. Well long story short, I am better, whatever that is. On two anti-biotics, on potassium (which dropped near nothing after surgery) and they great thing is I get pain pills. Now anyone who knows me that pain pills to me are oddly shaped titly-winks. They keep pushing this pills on me and I keep shredding the prescriptions. If America ever wonders why there are so many pill-poppers in this country then look at how we manage pain after surgery or accidents. I choose to tough most pain out, I know when to give, but otherwise I won't do it. But it is so overly-prescribed it is rediculous. Well I really am not up for a rant, still weak from it all, so I will leave it here.
Everyone take care of yourselves. TTFN.
Next info will be on my "mircle." Leave you wondering on that til it is fully finished!
So you may ask yourself if Val hasn't ran away and joined a convent. I haven't talked to anyone in a week. Well don't worry, I am not a nun. Worse I have been in the hospital. Yep, the "simple day surgery" that was scheduled for next month, turned into emerency surgery with complications that left me in the hospital for five long days. I shouldn't say that, the surgery didn't keep me long about 3 days. Of course they had to battle a 103.3 fever to get me into surgery first, then made sure it stayed down before releasing me Tuesday afternoon. Well Tuesday night I had to go back when the fever kicked up to 101.7, then 101.3, then 102.9, then hospitalization. No real surprise when the doctor said oh you're sick. Thanks doc, what you just spent another two grand to tell me that? So re-admitted into haspital and I just got out on Friday afternoon. At least I don't have to eat anymore super-greasy foods there anymore. I never been to a hospital where I think the main ingredsiate of all the foods cooked was lard. The irony of it is all is that I couldn't get butter there. They gave me that heart smart spread. OMG, grease dripped off the food, but butter was the no-no? Go figure. Well long story short, I am better, whatever that is. On two anti-biotics, on potassium (which dropped near nothing after surgery) and they great thing is I get pain pills. Now anyone who knows me that pain pills to me are oddly shaped titly-winks. They keep pushing this pills on me and I keep shredding the prescriptions. If America ever wonders why there are so many pill-poppers in this country then look at how we manage pain after surgery or accidents. I choose to tough most pain out, I know when to give, but otherwise I won't do it. But it is so overly-prescribed it is rediculous. Well I really am not up for a rant, still weak from it all, so I will leave it here.
Everyone take care of yourselves. TTFN.
Next info will be on my "mircle." Leave you wondering on that til it is fully finished!
Saturday, February 04, 2006
What's New Pussycat?
Not much here. Well internet has been down. I am facing sugery soon. Truthfully I am supossed to be in recovery right now, but my insurance doe not kick in til next month, so no surgery for me. I am praying right now that things don't get worse, we will have to see what happens in over 3 weeks. I hope I will be ok, but I have started getting my affairs straight in case I don't make it to surgery. Don't worry though as long as I make to the surgery I should get through surgery fine. I really don't have time right now to chat, so I wish all well and bid ado.
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